Monday, December 27, 2010

From Bo this Christmas

Why I Love Christmas?

I love Christmas. I love the Christmas meals. Not just the food, mind you. Like a few minutes ago, I just came from my Mom’s house for our Christmas lunch. My sisters, their husbands, and most of the kids were there—and we ate and talked the whole time. We had a seven-hour lunch!

As most of us were trying to be healthy, we didn’t have traditional Christmas dishes like Lechon, Crispy Pata, and Ham. Instead, we had green leafy salad with yogurt, fish fillet, and vegetarian pasta.

Impressed? Don’t be. Being the Sanchez household (where everyone is sweet), we still had Leche Flan, Apple pie, and two gallons of ice cream. Haha!

Yes, our food was fantastic. But our Christmas meal wasn’t about the food. It was about being together.It was about love, family, relationships, and all that good stuff.

After our lunch and before desert, we snuck into the prayer room, sat on the floor, and sang a few songs together. For years, I used to play the guitar for our family Christmas worship. But this year, my son Bene did us the favor of strumming the guitar. And his cousin, Joseph, played a few more Christmas songs for us. I have officially retired as the main music ministry of the family. And around me were my young nieces and nephews—all serving God and all enjoying a deep relationship with God. The feeling was unbelievable. Oh, to see the next generation take on the baton and serve the Lord. What else should I seek for?

Before the altar, each of us took turns thanking God for His blessings for 2010. We then prayed for new blessings for 2011. It was awesome. After the many Amens, we all marched down and ate our ice cream—and talked for 3 more hours.

This is what Christmas is all about. That’s why I love Christmas. I can’t wait for the next one.
And I pray for you. I pray for your family. I pray that you experience more love and joy and blessings this coming 2011. Merry Christmas!

May your dreams come true,
Bo Sanchez

Sunday, December 26, 2010

The Year To End, 2010

Looking forward to the coming year 2011. But before the current year come to an end, I suddenly made an effort to recall what "major major" things transpired in my personal life in 2010.

Hmmmmm . . .

My 2010 started with a bang for I was loaded with a heavy burden on my shoulders before 2009 ended and that was carried over in 2010. Whew! Heavy indeed.

It was solved in January (fine, for there were no longer a space left to fill-in the wrinkles on my face then). Business was at its lowest. My younger sister had a breast lump which was later on deemed malignant. I had some skin issues because of stress. I was struggling until "what seemed to be a very long" February, it was not hearts' month but "hurts" month. We stopped joining the dog shows. Now, that hurts too.

As a result of all of these, I was continuously gaining weight, until I decided to stop worrying and do something in March. I exercised come March 1. I did my routine in the evenings when I have finished my duties. I remember bending and jumping late in the night up to midnight, what a queer method to stay fit. My goal then was to lose weight, perspire my way back to how I used to weigh and learn a challenging pop dance.

I did! A taste of victory . . . went forward to tackle my other struggles.

Let's switch to another channel. For the succeeding months, April and May, I was into "K-Pop" - music, dances and mini-movies available in YouTube.

In June, my mom was diagnosed of cancer on the chest wall. (She had breast cancer in 2007.) We started chemo therapy sessions, running in July up to August. Because of this and other challenges, I decided to go back serving in the church. Good move. Blessings seem to pour like rain in dry, hot summer days.

My eldest child graduated college and took up his masters degree in Theology. My youngest, who was afraid of flunking Accounting, ended up in the Dean's List.

My sister's only child was deemed one of the Outstanding Students and was granted a scholarship. This sister of mine was key to my mom's treatment.

My brother and his family (including their only child, a very bright and handsome lad) are serving through Couples for Christ in New Zealand.

My other sister in the U.S., had been cured of her illness and the disease even brought her family to closer ties. Her eldest went into a fruitful leadership training and was awarded a priceless exchange program.

Who could have thought that my mom, in spite of her situation, was able to go Batangas for a retreat. She went through this spiritual rejuvenation together with her warm co-believers, Parish (Neo) classmates who have been visiting and holding vespers and prayer sessions in her home during the times she was recovering from her chemo therapy difficulties.

My father's grave has been frequently visited by us and finally, by his sister and brother, who decided to go home here in the Philippines this year. Balikbayan relatives of 2010!

Thanks be to God for all these blessings!

In September, I started to slow down playing tennis. My attention to the sport kinda faded.

Out of the blues, I went to Singapore for some bonding moments with my younger sister who has been living abroad for decades. My plans of visiting her in the U.S. did not push through. She is a cancer survivor herself, with a faith that is continuously growing strong. She is surrounded by a loving and supportive family.

In October, I was so fortunate to have visited the Holy Land with a lively group and Bo Sanchez as our pilgrimage leader. What a blessing indeed. I met a lot of friends plus a dear one, PinPin.

I also went visiting holy shrines, praying to different saints and to Our Lady (double-time).

In November, we were given the opportunity to start brewing up a new business. Some unlikely things that bind me and my husband.

My elder sister and I had our periodic check-up , mammography and breast ultra-sound. Results were fine, negative for anything bad.

My Uncle B passed away this year, joining the angels in Heaven in praising our Lord.

December proved to be a super busy month, I went back slowly to playing tennis, started preparing for the opening of the store in 2011 and went into having Mom go to a wellness center for treatment. I was also given the opportunity to complete serving in the misa de gallo (simbang gabi, Christmas midnight masses).

What a year! Good-bye 2010, hello 2011! Let's pack the coming year with full-filling milestones. Have yourself a great new year guys!

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Wellness Center

My mom who is 73 of age has undergone a series of chemotherapy sessions, first in 2007, then now in 2010.

For her last session, her body seem to continuously weaken. She then told us that she has decided to just go for the last session and stop for a while.

We discussed it and felt that she really needs to recover first before any chemotherapy treatment again. So while doing that, we go to a Wellness Center where the doctor treats other cancer patients.

Here, the aim is to build the immune system, on top of eliminating the cancer cells.

At the Wellness Center, Mamu is given Vitamin C (intravenous). She is prescribed to eat fruits and vegetables in lieu of meat.

Of course she needs to rest, drink lots of water, no dairy just yogurt, do deep breathing exercises, some walking, get exposed to sunshine and other healthy "Do's and Don'ts".

The treatment room has some decorations and crystal thingy.

We just continue praying and also keep on seeing her oncologist on top of all these wellness activities, which we believe will give her a better well-being if done right.

Of course, nothing beats love, support and community prayers. May God bless her.

Just for today, I will trust.
Just for today, I shall work honestly.
Just for today, I shall accept my blessings.
Just for today, I will be at peace.
Just for today, I will respect life.

These were the words written in the frame. I was wondering why the suggestion was to do the things just for today. Then, I remember a bible verse that says:

"So do not worry about tomorrow, it will have enough worries of its own. There is no need to add to the troubles each day brings."
Mathew 6:34

Also, if you have the power to do it for a day, then you can do it again the days ahead.

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Out With A Date With Mother Nature

How I wish I could go for a real kayaking adventure. Have not included it in my list of "to do's".

I think I've tried a banana boat ride but that's far from the thrills of kayaking.

Oh well, the day will surely come. It will.

Here at Hamilo Coast, Pico de Loro, Batangas, out with a date with Mother Nature.