Monday, December 27, 2010

From Bo this Christmas

Why I Love Christmas?

I love Christmas. I love the Christmas meals. Not just the food, mind you. Like a few minutes ago, I just came from my Mom’s house for our Christmas lunch. My sisters, their husbands, and most of the kids were there—and we ate and talked the whole time. We had a seven-hour lunch!

As most of us were trying to be healthy, we didn’t have traditional Christmas dishes like Lechon, Crispy Pata, and Ham. Instead, we had green leafy salad with yogurt, fish fillet, and vegetarian pasta.

Impressed? Don’t be. Being the Sanchez household (where everyone is sweet), we still had Leche Flan, Apple pie, and two gallons of ice cream. Haha!

Yes, our food was fantastic. But our Christmas meal wasn’t about the food. It was about being together.It was about love, family, relationships, and all that good stuff.

After our lunch and before desert, we snuck into the prayer room, sat on the floor, and sang a few songs together. For years, I used to play the guitar for our family Christmas worship. But this year, my son Bene did us the favor of strumming the guitar. And his cousin, Joseph, played a few more Christmas songs for us. I have officially retired as the main music ministry of the family. And around me were my young nieces and nephews—all serving God and all enjoying a deep relationship with God. The feeling was unbelievable. Oh, to see the next generation take on the baton and serve the Lord. What else should I seek for?

Before the altar, each of us took turns thanking God for His blessings for 2010. We then prayed for new blessings for 2011. It was awesome. After the many Amens, we all marched down and ate our ice cream—and talked for 3 more hours.

This is what Christmas is all about. That’s why I love Christmas. I can’t wait for the next one.
And I pray for you. I pray for your family. I pray that you experience more love and joy and blessings this coming 2011. Merry Christmas!

May your dreams come true,
Bo Sanchez

Sunday, December 26, 2010

The Year To End, 2010

Looking forward to the coming year 2011. But before the current year come to an end, I suddenly made an effort to recall what "major major" things transpired in my personal life in 2010.

Hmmmmm . . .

My 2010 started with a bang for I was loaded with a heavy burden on my shoulders before 2009 ended and that was carried over in 2010. Whew! Heavy indeed.

It was solved in January (fine, for there were no longer a space left to fill-in the wrinkles on my face then). Business was at its lowest. My younger sister had a breast lump which was later on deemed malignant. I had some skin issues because of stress. I was struggling until "what seemed to be a very long" February, it was not hearts' month but "hurts" month. We stopped joining the dog shows. Now, that hurts too.

As a result of all of these, I was continuously gaining weight, until I decided to stop worrying and do something in March. I exercised come March 1. I did my routine in the evenings when I have finished my duties. I remember bending and jumping late in the night up to midnight, what a queer method to stay fit. My goal then was to lose weight, perspire my way back to how I used to weigh and learn a challenging pop dance.

I did! A taste of victory . . . went forward to tackle my other struggles.

Let's switch to another channel. For the succeeding months, April and May, I was into "K-Pop" - music, dances and mini-movies available in YouTube.

In June, my mom was diagnosed of cancer on the chest wall. (She had breast cancer in 2007.) We started chemo therapy sessions, running in July up to August. Because of this and other challenges, I decided to go back serving in the church. Good move. Blessings seem to pour like rain in dry, hot summer days.

My eldest child graduated college and took up his masters degree in Theology. My youngest, who was afraid of flunking Accounting, ended up in the Dean's List.

My sister's only child was deemed one of the Outstanding Students and was granted a scholarship. This sister of mine was key to my mom's treatment.

My brother and his family (including their only child, a very bright and handsome lad) are serving through Couples for Christ in New Zealand.

My other sister in the U.S., had been cured of her illness and the disease even brought her family to closer ties. Her eldest went into a fruitful leadership training and was awarded a priceless exchange program.

Who could have thought that my mom, in spite of her situation, was able to go Batangas for a retreat. She went through this spiritual rejuvenation together with her warm co-believers, Parish (Neo) classmates who have been visiting and holding vespers and prayer sessions in her home during the times she was recovering from her chemo therapy difficulties.

My father's grave has been frequently visited by us and finally, by his sister and brother, who decided to go home here in the Philippines this year. Balikbayan relatives of 2010!

Thanks be to God for all these blessings!

In September, I started to slow down playing tennis. My attention to the sport kinda faded.

Out of the blues, I went to Singapore for some bonding moments with my younger sister who has been living abroad for decades. My plans of visiting her in the U.S. did not push through. She is a cancer survivor herself, with a faith that is continuously growing strong. She is surrounded by a loving and supportive family.

In October, I was so fortunate to have visited the Holy Land with a lively group and Bo Sanchez as our pilgrimage leader. What a blessing indeed. I met a lot of friends plus a dear one, PinPin.

I also went visiting holy shrines, praying to different saints and to Our Lady (double-time).

In November, we were given the opportunity to start brewing up a new business. Some unlikely things that bind me and my husband.

My elder sister and I had our periodic check-up , mammography and breast ultra-sound. Results were fine, negative for anything bad.

My Uncle B passed away this year, joining the angels in Heaven in praising our Lord.

December proved to be a super busy month, I went back slowly to playing tennis, started preparing for the opening of the store in 2011 and went into having Mom go to a wellness center for treatment. I was also given the opportunity to complete serving in the misa de gallo (simbang gabi, Christmas midnight masses).

What a year! Good-bye 2010, hello 2011! Let's pack the coming year with full-filling milestones. Have yourself a great new year guys!

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Wellness Center

My mom who is 73 of age has undergone a series of chemotherapy sessions, first in 2007, then now in 2010.

For her last session, her body seem to continuously weaken. She then told us that she has decided to just go for the last session and stop for a while.

We discussed it and felt that she really needs to recover first before any chemotherapy treatment again. So while doing that, we go to a Wellness Center where the doctor treats other cancer patients.

Here, the aim is to build the immune system, on top of eliminating the cancer cells.

At the Wellness Center, Mamu is given Vitamin C (intravenous). She is prescribed to eat fruits and vegetables in lieu of meat.

Of course she needs to rest, drink lots of water, no dairy just yogurt, do deep breathing exercises, some walking, get exposed to sunshine and other healthy "Do's and Don'ts".

The treatment room has some decorations and crystal thingy.

We just continue praying and also keep on seeing her oncologist on top of all these wellness activities, which we believe will give her a better well-being if done right.

Of course, nothing beats love, support and community prayers. May God bless her.

Just for today, I will trust.
Just for today, I shall work honestly.
Just for today, I shall accept my blessings.
Just for today, I will be at peace.
Just for today, I will respect life.

These were the words written in the frame. I was wondering why the suggestion was to do the things just for today. Then, I remember a bible verse that says:

"So do not worry about tomorrow, it will have enough worries of its own. There is no need to add to the troubles each day brings."
Mathew 6:34

Also, if you have the power to do it for a day, then you can do it again the days ahead.

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Out With A Date With Mother Nature

How I wish I could go for a real kayaking adventure. Have not included it in my list of "to do's".

I think I've tried a banana boat ride but that's far from the thrills of kayaking.

Oh well, the day will surely come. It will.

Here at Hamilo Coast, Pico de Loro, Batangas, out with a date with Mother Nature.

Friday, November 26, 2010

Celebrate the Feast Day

Today we celebrate the Feast Day of Our Lady of the Miraculous Medal.

Our Lady of the Miraculous Medal was the title given to the Blessed Virgin Mary after she appeared before St. Catherine, revealing the image of the medal she wanted to be made.

These were the words Mary conveyed to St. Catherine:
O Mary Conceived without sin pray for us who have recourse to Thee.

Have a Medal struck according to this model. All those who wear it with faith and confidence will receive abundant graces.

In accordance to the message of Mary, the Miraculous Medal should be worn closest to the heart to bring healing and protection to its holder. The medal ranks equal in importance with the holy Rosary and the Brown Scapular.


There are two churches who house the Miraculous Medal image in the Philippines. The first one is at the old San Marcelino Church, administered by Order of St. Vincent de Paul and the other is at the National Shrine of Our Lady Of the Miraculous Medal in Muntinlupa City.

The San Marcelino image is placed on an oval-shaped altar with three oval niches. The church has a yearly procession on the month of November. It's attended by Religious institutions administered by the Vincentians (St. Vincent de Paul).

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Stop-over at Padre Pio Church

Whenever I go to Quezon or Batangas, I do not know why I have the impulse to visit the Padre Pio Church at Sto. Tomas. Posted photo of the church and his image.

In the church, you can buy colored candles (with incense to burn) for prayer offerings. The colored candles stand for specific things to pray for, like green for healing and brown for thanksgiving. The small store of the church sells them plus other items like rosaries, oil, prayers, statues and books.

There is a beautiful Padre Pio Chapel in Libis, Quezon City that I plan to check out.

Francesco Forgione was born to Grazio Mario and Maria Giuseppa de Nunzio on 25 May 1887, in Pietrelcina, a farming town in the southern Italian region of Campania.



Padre Pio then became a spiritual director, guiding many spiritually, considering them his spiritual daughters and sons. He had five rules for spiritual growth, namely, weekly confession, daily Communion, spiritual reading, meditation, and examination of conscience.

He compared weekly confession to dusting a room weekly, and recommended the performance of meditation and self-examination twice daily: once in the morning, as preparation to face the day, and once again in the evening, as retrospection. His advice on the practical application of theology he often summed up in his now famous quote, "Pray, Hope and Don’t Worry". He directed Christians to recognize God in all things and to desire above all things to do the will of God.

Based on Padre Pio's correspondence, even early in his priesthood he experienced less obvious indications of the visible stigmata for which he would later become famous.


The Padre Pio Pilgrimage Church is a church in San Giovanni Rotondo, Italy owned by the Ordine dei Frati Minori Cappuccini di Foggia. Built in devotion to Saint Pio of Pietrelcina, it can accommodate 6,500 people seated at worship, with standing room for 30,000 people outside. The Genoan architect Renzo Piano designed the church. It is located in front of Casa Sollievo della Sofferenza, a big Italian hospital and research center, founded by Saint Pio of Pietrelcina.

Source: Wikipedia

Monday, November 15, 2010

On Padre Pio

Whenever I go to Quezon or Batangas, I do not know why I have the impulse to visit the Padre Pio Church at Sto. Tomas. Posted photo of the church and his image.

In the church, you can buy colored candles (with incense to burn) for prayer offerings. The colored candles stand for specific things to pray for, like green for healing and brown for thanksgiving. The small store of the church sells them plus other items like rosaries, oil, prayers, statues and books.

There is a beautiful Padre Pio Chapel in Libis, Quezon City that I plan to check out.

Francesco Forgione was born to Grazio Mario and Maria Giuseppa de Nunzio on 25 May 1887, in Pietrelcina, a farming town in the southern Italian region of Campania.



Padre Pio then became a spiritual director, guiding many spiritually, considering them his spiritual daughters and sons. He had five rules for spiritual growth, namely, weekly confession, daily Communion, spiritual reading, meditation, and examination of conscience.

He compared weekly confession to dusting a room weekly, and recommended the performance of meditation and self-examination twice daily: once in the morning, as preparation to face the day, and once again in the evening, as retrospection. His advice on the practical application of theology he often summed up in his now famous quote, "Pray, Hope and Don’t Worry". He directed Christians to recognize God in all things and to desire above all things to do the will of God.

Based on Padre Pio's correspondence, even early in his priesthood he experienced less obvious indications of the visible stigmata for which he would later become famous.


The Padre Pio Pilgrimage Church is a church in San Giovanni Rotondo, Italy owned by the Ordine dei Frati Minori Cappuccini di Foggia. Built in devotion to Saint Pio of Pietrelcina, it can accommodate 6,500 people seated at worship, with standing room for 30,000 people outside. The Genoan architect Renzo Piano designed the church. It is located in front of Casa Sollievo della Sofferenza, a big Italian hospital and research center, founded by Saint Pio of Pietrelcina.

Source: Wikipedia

Growth

As you focus and work on your dream, you grow as big as your dream. As you grow your dream, you also keep growing. As you expand your dream, you also keep expanding. - Bo Sanchez


Hi! Just want to drop a quick “Hello!” to you. I’m writing this in a beautiful hotel lobby, enjoying violin music in the background. I’m sipping my hot choco. And I’m breathing in the lovely ambience around me. Hmmmm…

I’m realizing that I’m late bloomer. I’m now 44. And it’s as though I’m still learning how to enjoy life! Honest!

Because once upon a time, I didn’t enjoy life. I thought I didn’t deserve it. That somehow, God will get angry if I enjoyed life too much. That I such a selfish person if I enjoyed too much. Oh, what a twisted mindset!

Now, I’m able to savor God’s goodness with an open heart. I smile more. I laugh more. I enjoy life more.

Hey, I hope you learn how to enjoy life more.

May your dreams come true,

Bo Sanchez

Oh, another thing that makes me feel happy today: In 11 days, it happens! The biggest, most inspiring, miracle-filled event of the year is almost here. (If you’re in Manila, fantastic. If not, fly here!) There’ll be 10,000+ people who’ll get their souls recalibrated, recharged, and restored at the Kerygma Conference 2010 at the PICC on November 26, 27, and 28. The best speakers. The best music. The best experience. For more details, call up Tel. (02) 7259999. Or log on at www.kerygmaconference.com now.

Bo Sanchez, 60 Chicago St., Cubao , Quezon City, Metro Manila 1109, Philippines

Sunday, November 14, 2010

Reunion

After just 24 days since we separated (buti kamo hindi naman 24 hours), the members of the St. John Holy land 2010 Pilgrims convened. Inunahan na ang Kerygma 2010 Conference. (even before the K. Conference this coming Nov. 26).

The reunion was a 24-karat moment. Great to see you guys, such lovely people with God-loving souls). Amen!

Monday, November 8, 2010

The Divine Mercy Praises

Today, I pray:

Divine Mercy, accompanying us, every moment of our life . . .
Divine Mercy, lifting us out of every misery . . .
Divine Mercy, source of our happiness and joy . . .
Divine Mercy, sweet relief for anguished hearts . . .
Divine Mercy, only hope of despairing souls . . .
Divine Mercy, repose of hearts, peace amidst fear . . .
Divine Mercy, inspiring hope against all hope . . .

I trust in You.

Saturday, October 30, 2010

Going For Korean Food

Whoa, we tried out eating at a Korean Restaurant . . . at Maru. We loved it and had to come back time and time again.

There were like a dozen free appetizers. mostly veggies. Specific food are cooked in front of you, yummy.

My favorite? Thin slices of pork that you watch grilled to perfection then wrapped in fresh green lettuce leaves. Hmmm. Don't forget to dip in the special Korean bean sauce.

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Cleaning Grace

Was able to attend the very first mass yesterday for the Feast of Our Lady of the Miraculous Medal. Our Lady is full of grace. Miraculously, today, I feel I am filled with "cleaning" grace.

I cleaned my car sparkling white (well, in my mind it's sparkling, it's a challenge to clean white cars). I proceeded with the floor of the front of our home, tried mopping it but finally resorted to wash it with soap and water. Oops, not to forget my giant mat.

And look! I wrestled with the doggy things like their housing and grooming table, whew, spic and span!

Okay, still with my efficient and dependable weapons : sturdy rubber gloves, laundry brush, rug, pail, basin and the ever-reliable laundry bar soap (a true cleaning agent, believe me) , I tackled our dining chairs.

I love those chairs of mango-yellow color. However, seems to me, the color has turned from a rich yellow to an over-ripe mango color.

During drying time (wiping the chairs dry), I stop a while and fill-up this blog, a little break time for me and my deadly weapons.

I started this blog so I don't get overwhelmed, tired and cranky with household chores, or shall I say "household cleaning battles". This blogging thingy still works its magic with me.

May you be filled with grace as well. Have a nice day!

Thursday, October 14, 2010

Genie in a Bottle? Ginseng

Last week, my husband brought home a "pasalubong" (surprise). It was a bottle of something I was not familiar with. At first, it looked to me like an embryo specimen. A closer look showed a root immersed in clear, lightly-tinted yellow liquid. I can spot minuscule debris floating as well. It's "Ginseng" in a bottle. Wow!

The label says "Korean Ginseng Drink". Further reading . . .
Ingredients: Korean ginseng root, malic acid, glycin, citric acid. At least, I know what citric acid is, I think. More . . . How to drink: Shake well before drinking. Deposits exist normally. Good for adults to drink one bottle at a time. Use by 2010.06.13.

I was laughing inside 'coz I was imagining myself shaking my whole body before drinking, just like in a comedy skit, for the label says . . . " Shake well before drinking" .

I was excited to see the item since I have heard about Ginseng being related to health. However, I realized that's all I know.

The bottle is left as is, unopened, until now. I am not quite sure if I should drink it. However, to put the ginseng into some use, I took a picture of it, and . . . out came this blog post.

Actually, my interest is more on trying to cook ginseng chicken.

I'll try to drink it next week, or probably next month, but that would have to be another post, heheh.

Gathered some info . . .

Ginseng
, also known as Ginnsuu in some regions of Asia, mainly China and Korea, is any one of eleven distinct species of slow-growing perennial plants with fleshy roots, belonging to the Panax genus in the family Araliaceae. It grows in the Northern Hemisphere in eastern Asia (mostly northern China, Korea, and eastern Siberia), typically in cooler climates; Panax vietnamensis, discovered in Vietnam, is the southernmost ginseng found. This article focuses on the Series Panax ginsengs, which are the adaptogenic herbs, principally Panax ginseng and P. quinquefolius. Ginseng is characterized by the presence of ginsenosides.

Siberian ginseng (Eleutherococcus senticosus) is not a true ginseng, but a different plant that was renamed as "Siberian ginseng" as a marketing ploy; instead of a fleshy root, it has a woody root; instead of ginsenosides, eleutherosides are the active compound. Eleutherosides are classified as another adaptogen.

The English word ginseng derives from the Chinese term rénshēn, literally "man root" (referring to the root's characteristic forked shape, resembling the legs of a man). The English pronunciation derives from a southern Chinese reading, similar to Cantonese jên shên and the Hokkien pronunciation "jîn-sim".

The botanical/genus name Panax means "all-heal" in Greek, sharing the same origin as "panacea," and was applied to this genus because Linnaeus was aware of its wide use in Chinese medicine as a muscle relaxant.

Traditional Uses

Both American ginseng (Panax quinquefolius) and Asian ginseng (Panax ginseng) roots are taken orally as adaptogens, aphrodisiacs and in the treatment of type II diabetes, as well as Sexual dysfunction in men. The root is most often available in dried form, either whole or sliced. Ginseng leaf, although not as highly prized, is sometimes also used; as with the root it is most often available in dried form.

This ingredient may also be found in some popular energy drinks: usually the "tea" varieties or functional foods. Usually ginseng is present in subclinical doses and it does not have measurable medicinal effects. It can be found in cosmetic preparations as well, with similar lack of effect.

Modern Science and Ginseng

It has been difficult to either verify or quantify the medicinal benefits of ginseng using science, as there are contradictory results from different studies, possibly due to the wide variety and quality of ginseng used in the tests. High-quality studies of the effects of ginseng are rare.

Ginseng is promoted as an adaptogen (a product that increases the body's resistance to stress), one which can to a certain extent be supported with reference to its anticarcinogenic and antioxidant properties, although animal experiments to determine whether longevity and health were increased in the presence of stress gave negative results.

A comparative, randomized and double-blind study at the National Autonomous University of Mexico indicates it may be "a promising dietary supplement" when assessed for an increase in quality of life.

P. ginseng appear to inhibit some characteristics associated with cancer in animal models; nevertheless, this effect is unclear in humans. A randomized, double-blind pilot study noted ginseng appeared to reduce fatigue in cancer patients.

A 2002 study by the Southern Illinois University School of Medicine (published in the annals of the New York Academy of Sciences) found that in laboratory animals, both Asian and American forms of ginseng enhance libido and copulatory performance. These effects of ginseng may not be due to changes in hormone secretion, but to direct effects of ginseng, or its ginsenoside components, on the central nervous system and gonadal tissues. In males, ginsenosides can facilitate penile erection. This is consistent with traditional Chinese medicine and Korean medicine medicinal uses of ginseng. Ginseng is known to contain phytoestrogens.

Use with other Medications

Side effects

According to a Sports Nutrition FAQ published by UMass Amherst, one of P. ginseng's most common side-effects is the inability to sleep. However, other sources state that ginseng causes no sleep difficulties. Other side-effects can include nausea, diarrhea, headaches, epistaxis, high blood pressure, low blood pressure, and mastalgia. Ginseng may also lead to induction of mania in depressed patients who mix it with antidepressants.

Common Classification

Ginseng roots in a market in Seoul, 2003
P. quinquefolius American ginseng (root)

According to Traditional Chinese Medicine, American Ginseng promotes Yin energy, cleans excess Yang in the body, and calms the body. The reason it has been claimed that American ginseng promotes Yin (shadow, cold, negative, female) while East Asian ginseng promotes Yang (sunshine, hot, positive, male) is because, according to traditional Chinese medicine, things living in cold places or northern side of mountains or southern side of rivers are strong in Yang and vice versa, so that the two are balanced. Chinese/Korean ginseng grows in Manchuria and Korea, the coldest area known to many Koreans in ancient times. Thus, ginseng from there is supposed to be very Yang. Originally, American ginseng was imported into China via subtropical Guangzhou, the seaport next to Hong Kong, so Chinese doctors believed that American ginseng must be good for Yin, because it came from a hot area. However they did not know that American ginseng can only grow in temperate regions. Nonetheless the root is legitimately classified as more Yin because it generates fluids.

The two main components of ginseng are claimed to be in different proportions in the Asian and American varieties, and are speculated to be the cause of the excitatory versus tonic natures.

The ginseng is traditionally sliced and a few slices are simmered in hot water to make a decoction.

Most North American ginseng is produced in the Canadian provinces of Ontario and British Columbia and the American state of Wisconsin, according to Agri-food Canada. P. quinquefolius is now also grown in northern China.

A randomized, double-blind study shows that an extract of American ginseng reduces influenza cases in the elderly when compared to placebo.

The aromatic root resembles a small parsnip that forks as it matures. The plant grows 6 to 18 inches tall, usually bearing three leaves, each with three to five leaflets 2 to 5 inches long.

Panax ginseng Asian ginseng (root) and Ginseng and reishi mushrooms in bottles are being sold in Seoul, Korea.

According to Traditional Chinese Medicine Panax Ginseng promotes Yang energy, improves circulation, increases blood supply, revitalizes and aids recovery from weakness after illness, and stimulates the body. Panax Ginseng is available in four forms:

The form called fresh ginseng is the raw product.

The form called white ginseng (WG) is fresh ginseng which has been dried. It is grown for four to six years, and then peeled and dried to reduce the water content to 12% or less. White Ginseng is air dried in the sun and may contain less of the therapeutic constituents. It is thought by some that enzymes contained in the root break down these constituents in the process of drying. Drying in the sun bleaches the root to a yellowish-white color.

The form called red ginseng (RG) is harvested after six years, is not peeled and is steam-cured at standard boiling temperatures of 100 degrees Celsius, thereby giving them a glossy reddish-brown coloring. Steaming the root is thought to change its biochemical composition and also to prevent the breakdown of the active ingredients. The roots are then dried. RG is more common as herbal medicine than WG, and there is increasing research on the pharmacological activities of RG specific ginsenosides.

The form called sun ginseng (SG) is created from a heat processing method which increases ginsenoside components such as ginsenoside-[Rg.sub.3], -[Rk.sub.1] and -[Rg.sub.5] by steaming white ginseng at a higher temperature than red ginseng. The herb is steamed for three hours at 120 degrees C. Research has shown that SG has increased nitric oxide, superoxide, hydroxyl radical and peroxynitrite scavenging activities compared with conventionally processed RG or WG. The increased steaming temperature produces an optimal amount of biological activity due to its ability to amplify specific ginsenosides. Japanese researchers set out to investigate the antioxidant effect of SG on oxidative stress.

Source: Wikipedia

Friday, September 24, 2010

Why? Why Not? Balut Anyone?

My hubby started watching a particular cooking show that features dishes that can be prepared and cooked easy and fast.

One of the recipes that captured his interest is this "balut dish". I've never heard or seen such a dish, but because he was thrilled that he believes he can cook this recipe, he started talking me helping him in his task.


We bought corn oil, garlic, oyster sauce, ginisa mix, spring onions and of course " balut", six of them.

It was fun, for we did everything together . . . buying the ingredients, cooking the dish, plating the dish plus waiting for the kids to go home, taste it and comment on it.

One of my sons ate two pieces of balut, but my other son just looked on and never tried it. My younger son preferred my chicken-pork afritada with carrots, red pepper, mushrooms and baby potatoes.

My eldest son said both dinner dishes were winners!

Thursday, September 9, 2010

The Dont's on Having Glowing Skin

Seven (7) Beauty Sins to Avoid

by Sarah Bernard, Host of The Thread
Her blogpost

We all want glowing skin, but the truth is our daily habits often take us further from our goal than we realize. In this episode, dermatologist Dr. Jeannette Graf, points out what we should not be doing, from booking time in tanning beds to staying in sweaty gym clothes post-workout.I consider myself relatively healthy and mindful of my beauty/skin regimen but the truth is, there are small-seeming things we can all do that will have a big effect. Check out Dr. Graf’s list and see which sins you are guilty of:

1 No tanning beds. They age you and triple your risk for melanoma.

2 No lounging in sweaty gym clothes. Exercise is fantastic for the skin as it increases blood flow, but the toxins you just released are sitting on your clothes and clogging your pores.

3 Not exercising.

4 Not using an anti-aging moisturizer till you’re older. Start in your 20s. The number one anti-ager is a cream with SPF, which should be used every day of the year.

5 No going to bed with makeup on. Keep pre-moistened makeup remover cloths by your bed so being tired won’t work as an excuse.

6 Not cleaning your face after flying. Airplanes are full of re-circulated air that’s drying to the skin. Again, the pre-moistened makeup remover cloths can come in handy here.

7 No overindulging on the inside. Drink plenty of water, avoid cola and refined sugar, eat fruits and vegetables and your skin will look so much better as a result.

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Keep A Glowing Skin

6 Best Foods for Healthy Skin

By: David Zinczenko

1. SALMON
Salmon is an ideal food for many reasons, but as far as your skin’s concerned, there’s only one that matters: It’s among the world’s greatest sources of omega-3 fatty acids. Those are the essential fats that, along with bolstering the cognitive powers of your brain, concentrate in the walls of your epidermal cells to help lock in moisture. Plus, in one study, researchers supplemented two groups of mice with either omega-3 or omega-6 fats. After two weeks, the skin of the omega-3-fed group exhibited a 20 percent faster recovery rate from exposure to ultraviolet light. That gives salmon two crucial skin boons: keeping your skin from looking dry and helping it battle the dangers of excessive sunlight.

2. CARROTS
Carrots are teeming with tiny orange pigments called beta-carotene, and when you ingest those pigments, you’re inviting them to nestle into your skin, fill in blotches, and give you a healthy glow. And what’s more, research shows that this can actually help prevent premature aging from sun damage. But is the accumulation of orange in your skin going to make you look like an extra from Jersey Shore? Well, hopefully not. But eating excessive loads of carotene-rich foods can lead to a condition called carotenosis, wherein your skin stops looking healthy and starts looking, well, orange. But the conditions is rare, so unless you notice yourself turning into a prison jumpsuit, feel free to chow down.

3. AVOCADO
One study published by
The Journal of the American College of Nutrition found that people with higher intakes of olive oil had fewer wrinkles than people with higher intakes of butter. The reason: Butter is loaded with saturated fat, while olive oil is rich in monounsaturates, the same essential fats that make up more than 50% of the calories in an avocado. So why eat avocado over olive oil? Both are good, but avocados have the added bonus of B vitamins, which also help to keep your skin looking vibrant and smooth.

4. BEANS
Legumes, to be more precise. This is the class of plants that includes black beans, chickpeas, lentils, soybeans, and peanuts. And how do these puny pods protect your face? By smoothing out wrinkles. Australian researchers analyzed the diets of more than 400 elderly men and women and found that high intakes of legumes—alongside vegetables and healthy fats—resulted in 20% fewer wrinkles over time. The effect is likely a result of isoflavones—potent antioxidants—concentrated in the beans.

5. GRAPES
Besides providing protection from heart attack and stroke, antioxidants called polyphenols found in grapes can also help keep middle-aged skin from sagging. That’s because polyphenols improve skin’s elasticity by strengthening collagen, the primary protein in skin’s innermost layer.

6. WATER
Okay, it’s not as fun to drink as wine, but water is the strongest weapon you have against lifeless skin. That’s why they call it “moisturizing”—because you’re trying to lock moisture, aka water, into your skin. To put it broadly, all the body’s processes rely on hydration, so if you’re not sipping throughout the day, you’re likely to have a slower metabolism, groggier head, and, yes, drier skin. One study suggested that it takes a mere half-liter of water to create a measurable increase in the capillary blood flow to your body’s outer layer. That’s just over 16 ounces. Try doing that a few times a day and you’ll have a face like a baby’s bottom in no time.

Sunday, August 8, 2010

Going for a Younger Look

Excerpts from a very interesting article by Liz Brody, "5 Simple Tricks to Looking Younger":

(1) Skin
Try creams and lotions. Cleanse gently, moisturize daily, swear by SPF 30, and think about an anti-aging cream. Vitamins C and A seem to stand out. In drugstore creams, look for L-ascorbic acid and retinol. At the prescription level, retinoids (like Retin A) have the most science behind them.

(2) Makeup
Try "let there be light" instead of make-up and hide. To hide the bags, dab a light-reflecting cover-up, and don't use powder unless it's loose and finely milled. "If you've never curled your lashes, now is the time to start," says Hollywood makeup artist Kerry Herta . "The compact has to go. Replace it with a liquid foundation." Try a tinted moisturizer. The whole idea is to keep a luminosity to the skin rather than to mattify it. The look of youth is radiance. Brash lipstick can backfire; you'll look younger with soft colors and a little gloss on top".

(3) Hair
Try a touch of shine instead of dyeing darker. Also the cut and a few well-placed highlights can counter facial sagging according to Terrence Michael Renk, a stylist at J Beverly Hills who works in TV and film.

(4) Clothes
It's all about the right pieces."You'll look chic and younger", she says Charla Krupp, author of How Not to Look Old , "in white pants and high heels, or a simple dress". And then"a lot of bangles, a big thick watch, tons of teeny elasticized bracelets." Eyewear can make a big difference, too. Shake up the pedicure. "Put lavender on your toes. Blue, black...grey is really in."

(5) The Body
"You need to continue to train the brain circuits responsible for movement," says Michael Gonzalez-Wallace, creator of the Super Body, Super Brain program. That means, instead of just walking or jogging, which you do automatically, you should periodically throw in a balance or coordination challenge: Walk backward, play basketball, take a ballet class, stand on one foot with your eyes closed. "Try one new activity a week, You just need a few minutes."

Stephanie Dolgoff, author of My Formerly Hot Life says, "Dying your hair or filling in a frown line can definitely give you a little boost. But don't expect looking younger to make you happy.

A smile is an instant face lift.


Source: Liz Brody's blog post

Saturday, July 31, 2010

A Good Day to be Happy

Today is another "D Day" for us as a family. . .

That means, it's chemo therapy session day for us. That is how it works. It is really us, as a team undergoing the session, but of course "Wonder Mamu" as the lead. Got to face this with a bit of excitement and thanksgiving as well.

So at 6 am in the morning, little "ate" sister (our youngest sister) called up Mamu to give her happy thoughts as "pabaon" (like a take out or something). Mamu was able to talk to her grandchildren (Julia, Jareth and Zachy) in the US.

Then came the call from my only brother living in New Zealand who also gave a present to Mamu by having his son JP talk to Mamu before she heads to the hospital. This not only made Mamu happy but busy because she had to rush dressing up for we have to go. We had about four big bags to carry. We were like going to a summer outing. We even forgot our pillow. With all the hustle and bustle, her thoughts were off the chemo therapy. Great!

Our relatives both here and abroad have also showed their own personal ways of caring and support. Mamu's community members (of the Lourdes parish church) have also done their prayers and vespers, all for Mamu's health. Thanks to all of them, not to forget our very own friends too.

We started our day early. That way, we don't have to mingle with the traffic, both vehicles and people. A reward is having to choose "our place". I am referring to our "suki" cubicle, the one we always choose.

We went straight to the BCI unit (BCI stands for Bienavides Cancer Institute), with big sister saying good morning to the secretary, the security guard and the nurses, "parang kakandidato" (like a candidate for a government position). That's how she is.

The hospital has new, up-to-date and clean facilities and equipment. Here is the nurses' station in the middle of the room. At the sides are the cubicles, now with pink curtains and golden yellow bed sheets. The last time we visited, they had light yellow curtains and bed sheets.

We were contemplating on trying out the cubicle near the large glass windows so we can look at the big green trees and the vast blue sky, however, the sunlight might smile on us too much, heheh, so we ended up on our usual "fave" spot where it's super cool, besides cubicle 7.

An elderly couple was occupying Cubicle No. 7. The husband was the patient who completed his 6 sessions, however, his doctor recommended a 7th. The wife went to this 7th session with a worried face (most probably a worried mind and heart as well, not to exclude a worried financial situation, since this was what she mentioned to Mamu). She quickly received comforting words from my eldest sister for that's all my sister's powers can do for the woman at the moment.

Mamu, the wonder woman that she is, takes her position on the bed with conviction, taking off her pair of golden "Crocs shoes" . . .

The nurse, in blue not in white, diligently prepared the medicines and the gadgets. Would you believe they were so busy because all the cubicles were occupied. The other room for children patients was also accommodating grown-ups for the day.

My sister and I try to cheer up Mamu as best we can. Mamu was sharing her feelings about the contents of the cards her grandsons Justin and Jeric gave her and some funny stories about Angelica, her granddaughter, who was in school, on a Saturday, for her review. Grandchildren are a blessing (most of the time, viewing it positively). We had a lot of chit-chats and laughs before the session plus some eats.

Mamu had a couple of McDonald's hash brown before the session, some delicious sweet crunchy native "turon" (fried sweet banana) during the session and "lumpiang sariwa" with mouth-watering halo-halo after.

We had her listen to nice music to make her relax. She was asleep the whole time, but I guess it's more of the Benadryl (a medicine that makes one sleepy) more than the music, heheh. Of course not, the pop music helped.

According to Daniel Kahneman, Nobel Prize winner, we have an experiencing self and a memory self.

From what I get, we define happiness based on our memory of the experience rather than the experience itself. This is something new to me and I find it really interesting.

This is the reason why we make an effort to build a positive experience today for Mamu than any other day.

Keep on believing! Chow!

Thursday, July 8, 2010

Give Thanks to a Big God

Late last night, before I went to bed, I felt really really tired, emotionally and mentally, more than physically. I was at the hospital with my sister and my mother from 9 AM to 5:30 PM. It was mom's first session of a series of scheduled chemo therapy, that is for this year 2010. Way back in 2007, we were in the same hospital, the same chemo unit and the same bed, doing the same familiar procedures.

I was ready to sleep, with my eyes closed, lying flat on my back, silent, not moving a twitch, just thinking . . . thinking.

Thank you Mamu is undergoing chemo therapy . . .
Thank you for the these medical technologies . . .
Thank you for these latest medicines that give healing . . .
Thank you for able doctors and nurses and hospital staff . . .
Thank you for this hospital that offers these medical treatments in our country . . .
Thank you the capability to avail of these services in various ways possible . . .
Thank you for government benefits that help in a way . . .
Thank you for family and friends that show their support in their own personal way . . .
Thank you for Mamu's fellow community members that pray for her and visit her . . .
Thank you for Mamu's strength physically, emotionally and mentally to undergo treatment . . .
Thank you for the cheaper and faster methods of communication . . .

Thank you for a big God that handles our big problems . . .


Then, I fell asleep like a baby.