Got Hooked with Rainism

Who wouldn't be hooked with the talented, hard-working Korean male artist Jung Ji Hoon(Bi) Rain. He is a superb dancer, singer and actor who made it big in Hollywood, what with his movie Ninja Assassin in 2009.

Straight From A Sister's Heart

Very interesting . . .

my thirteen-year old niece writes about the realization of how her life has changed significantly due to the family's challenge of having a special child with autism. They reside in the U.S. and the little brother attends school with significant improvement. The rest of the members of the family had their own stories to tell, but here we read about Julia's thoughts . . .

Big Sister's Blog
http://ilovejareth.blogspot.com/

. . . as you can see, living a life with Jareth has it's ups and downs. With every down he brings there's a more effective, more rewarding, up.
. . . I just end up enjoying the fact that we're together as a family and . . .

A Love Song Conquering Time, Place and Language

It is unbelievable how music can touch one's heart, in any language. This is a Chinese love song of a couple of decades, a hit song of Teresa Teng. In this clip, it is sang by Asian teenage heartthrob Jerry Yan (Yen Cheng Xi) in one of the F4 concerts.

It is also interesting to note how the moon and other celestial bodies (like meteors) are significant to Asians. Cool!

Source: Mini_Mia

English Translation

You ask me how deep my love for you is,
How much I really love you.
My affection is real.
My love is real.
The moon represents my heart.

You ask me how deep my love for you is,
How much I really love you.
My affection does not waver,
My love will not change.
The moon represents my heart.

Just one soft kiss
is enough to move my heart.
A period of time when our affection was deep,
Has made me miss you until now.

You ask me how deep my love for you is,
How much I really love you.

Go think about it.
Go and have a look [at the moon],
The moon represents my heart.

Chinese Lyrics
(A hit song of Teresa Teng)

Ni wen wo ai ni you duo shen
Wo ai ni you ji fen
Wo di qing ye zhen, wo di ai ue zhen
yue liang dai biao wo de xin

Ni wen wo ai ni you duo shen
wo ai ni you ji fen
wo di qing bu yi,
wo de ai bu bian
yue liang dai biao wo de xin

Qing qing de yi ge wen
yi jing da dong wo de xin
shen shen de yi duan qing
jiao wo si nian dao ru jin

Ni wen wo ai ni you duo shen
wo ai ni you ji fen
ni qu xiang yi xiang,
ni qu kan yi kan
yue liang dai biao wo de xin

On Being Human

Got hooked on Asian drama, Korean and Taiwanese series. I watch them even without English subtitles . . . on TV, DVD and You Tube up to past midnight. Way to go!

Touched by a movie? Or even cried while watching the particular scene or episode? Ached inside when seeing sad news? Andrew Matthews, in his book "Happiness in Hard Times" went over these things, stating that we experience such because deep inside we empathize, we care, we love and we are human. "There is that core in each of us that is simply beautiful."

Note : This is Jerry Yan in Sony Walkman's "I will love you . . .".
The guy accidentally caught the girl in video. From then on he kept on viewing her in the video, not knowing that their paths have crossed in several occasions.

Jerry Yan's I Will Love You Very Deeply (but in Japanese)

Treating Anxiety Attacks, How About I Stop Worrying

Bwahahah!

Got so many problems in 2009, or better just call them challenges, to be a little positive. Well, for the first week of January, my prayers are being heard and answered.

To face my fears, aside from more and a lot more prayers, I took hold of myself not to drown myself with worry, which I actually started (that is, killing myself softly with fear).

I sang to myself . . . "Something good is going to happen to me, this very day, this very year . . . " In one of the TV commercials, I heard pep words . . . "It would only be great!"and "See the difference." I claim that things will work out for the good.

Romans 8:28 . . . And we know that in all things God works for the good for those who love Him. By the way, I also decided to have a facial for the day, heheh (that's after I finished my houseworks which I completed happily.)

Thinking less of one's self and more of others is also a plus. Do start at home, working from the inside out, those close to you then moving to other people.

Here's a related article:

You know that annoying saying "Things always work out for the best?" It's something motivational speakers like me say from the podium when we're trying to help people deal with the bad things that happen to them. And a lot of people might think it's Pollyanna BS.

Well, let me share my recent example.

I'm single and the holidays can be lonely. So several years ago I decided to start taking great trips during those holidays. It's a slow time business-wise, so it's been a fantastic solution. I expand my horizons, don't miss out on lots of business opportunities, and don't sit around feeling sorry for myself.

This year I was seriously considering going to Greece. I bought several books on Greece, contacted several companies that do tours of Greece, and thought it might be the location for this year. But the economy took a nose dive and I decided it would be wiser to pay off my mortgage rather than take an extravagant vacation.

Of course, as the holidays approach I've been wondering if maybe I made the wrong choice, if I shouldn't have played it safe. Can you say, "Whew?"

As many of you know, Greece is in a horrible state right now. It's being torn apart by rioters. Obviously I would have had to cancel my trip or if somehow I had gotten caught in this mess, there's no telling what could have happened. It certainly wouldn't be the Greece I wanted to visit.

We don't have a crystal ball, we can't know the future. Sometimes something seems bad (this recession) but maybe you will also realize there's some aspect of it that's for the best. Maybe we'll reassess what's important to us. Maybe we'll treat our customers like they are worth their weight in gold (which we sometimes forget when times are good). Maybe we'll operate more efficiently. Maybe some companies will fail that really needed to. Maybe you'll be let go from a job you really hated and find work you really love. Maybe someone leaves you, only to free you up to meet the person of your dreams! We can't see the future and what the end result will be. So hang in there!

How to stop worrying about the future:

1.) Assume if you do the best you can things will work out in the long run. It might be the very long run, but they WILL work out.
2.) Don't confuse short term pleasure (eating a whole pizza) with long term happiness (being healthy). Sometimes things are awful in the short term, but pay off big time down the road.
3.) Tell yourself, "When the going gets tough, I get going." Action obliterates fear and worry.
4.) Stop imagining the worst. If you insist on predicting the future, why not assume the best?
5.) Stop beating yourself up over the past. It is over - you did the best you could with the information you had at the time.
6.) Realize that when people try to predict the future they are usually wrong (and we think they are weirdos - gypsies, astrologers, palm readers and weathermen come to mind.)
7.) Quote Nietzsche - it if doesn't kill you, it makes you stronger! Bring it, Life! The harder it is, the stronger we will be!
8.) Remind yourself that most of the things you worry about never happen and that worrying doesn't do a damn thing about them anyway.

Bottom line - you never know what the future holds. Something that seems bad today could end up to be something good tomorrow. You might meet the love of your life at the second job you had to take to make extra money. The Universe works in mysterious ways. Your only job is to keep showing up and staying open to hope.

Denise Ryan, MBA, is a Certified Speaking Professional, a designation of excellence held by less than 10% of all professional speakers. She is a blogger http://motivationbychocolate.blogspot.com.

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